relationships are HARD ,walking away is even HARDER

SO I just broke up with my boyfriend and I think I'm serious this time.I need a break or something to see if this is where I'm suppose to be because ever since yesterday I just haven't been feeling it.I'm not fond of people who "stunt" or put on a show for others I'm grown and I'm much too old for that.More then anything I'm just ready for the weekend to get here because its Essence weekend which means fun fun fun!You know many people think relationships are hard ,but I think walking away from someone you perceived as "the one" is much harder.Maybe I jinxed myself.Who knows it doesnt really matter much now "que sera sera" which means what willl be,will be.I hope I have a better day tomorrow this day has been AWFUL.

All i want is EVERYTHING

5 Keys to a Successful Relationship


1.Communication
2.Honesty
3.Trust
4.Respect
5.Dependability


The importance of communication cannot be stressed enough.If you cant open up and talk about things,then there is no foundation in the relationship.When people have things on their mind and let them go without discussing it,it usually manifest itself somewhere else.Being honest is the KEY,even little lies can come back to haunt you.If you're in a relationship without trust its just a time bomb waiting to explode.Within a healthy relationship RESPECT is a must,you may not agree all the time but you have to respect each others opinions.Having someone who is dependable and reliable gives you a sense of security in a relationship.

Comedy

Work it OUT

& I wonder if you know...

TODAY WAS A EPIC FAIL as a whole.First my boyfriend called me about this iphone 4 that Im still waiting on,I through a tantrum and got over it...have you seen it its not even DOPE.Secondly I feel aggravated.Ugh I want something more...But on a brighter notee my nephew birthday is this weekend and im excited.I love love love KIDS!!!Oh yeah CONGRATS to my bff Angi D she's graduating tomorrow.............

Relationships

Everyone looks for that one person they can grow old with,the one person they wanna wake up to every single day and say FUCK THIS IS THE ONE....So earlier me and my friend Tiffy were having a little convo about grad school,medical school,law school etc. and relationships and we were tlking about how important it is to be in a stable relationship when going through this phase of life and I was just thinking and drifting off into lala world...For me an ideal life would be a good hubby two kids and a nice house with a red door....but I think its inevitable....not so much for me...or maybe I just need to change somethings...

• sidebar i just saw a informmercial for something called booty pop

Whose in charge now?

Obama is NOT playing with that ass...

So a reporter from Rolling Stone decided to do a interview wiith General McChrystal however it ended up as an #epicfail,causing the general to resign.You can read more of the article here

Life after college is turning out to be a bit of a bore.Im not inspired and Im shitless.Waking up without a motive is the pitts,so its probably time for me to get a job.Although the job searching sux even harder I need a challenge.I honestly feel like with the way things are going in the economy a college degree just doesn't make you a higher candidate for the job market.Most employers would much rather hire someone who is already trained for the job do to alot of job experience(shit I would have all the experience in the world,but i went to COLLEGE)give me a freaking break.

Gonna have my nephews this weekend,ahhh love my babies!

Apple is PISSING ME OFF.Due to the high consumer volume of the iphone 4 the release date has been pushed back for the rest of the world who didnt PRE-ORDER.SERIOUSLY Apple did you not think the world would want the NEW iphone this is the number 1 phone,ugh this publicity stunt irritates me.On another note I currently have the HD2 and it SUX ASS.However Im not a droid lover so that isn't very suprising...miss my bbm though.

In fashion news these shoes are making me feel some kind of way

sidebar: i Need to get back on my workout...Jennifer Hudson inspires ME

I can ride my bike with no handle bars

Okay Im really going to try and be a better blogger.Its easier for me to talk oppossed to type...sheesh.So today is date day,well every Tuesday is because its the ONLY day my boo gets off.Super excited!! P.S. I get to go to my favorite place...owwww PF.

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  Matt Barnes is a straight BITCH,and on that note I hate Girls who allow their men to control them.It PATHETIC

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  On another note Im ready for Essence!And Ive created the perfect OUTFIT.

AND I LIVE FOR THIS...

First Blog Post!

Had alot to say before I actually made this blog now I seem to have writers block.SAD smh.I guess I'll just spaz about miscellaneous randoms.For starters Im so READY for something new and exciting to happen in my life.Although I want to do the "grown' thing I dont wanna pay the grown bills lol.Which brings me to sugardaddies...I was watching Tyra Banks show 2 weeks ago when I ran across this episode of sugarbabies. Made me think twice about a couple of things lol...joking I think.

First Blog. I love these harem pants I chased them down and I finally came across a small....cross my fingers and tried them on got my ass right into that small....FAB!

Find these at XXI.